Beautiful

"Yes you are so beautiful..."

I always hear about that, some people told that when they see a beautiful woman pass by them. Me too.

Today I look at some photograph of my friend on the social networking. She upload her new photograph. She wearing a black mini dress. She looks.... sexy. I do not mean anything by saying that word, I just really think that she is beautiful by wearing those stuff and all of the sexy cloth. Does not like me...
Hey... wait. But listen, I do not mean that I want to wearing those sexy stuff. hehehehe... (^w^)v

I do not have a good posture of body. I do not know, I want to tell it to you about my weight or not. But... hyaaaa.... you do not know me actually, doesn't it?
I am about 165 cm with 65 kilos or more. hehehhe....

I am very feel dissatisfied with it. I feel like... I am really unlucky person.
The things that makes me still known by the people is... I am the diligent student with the first rank at my school.

I think... I am feeling the same way today. But look... I think a little bit small now... maybe one kilo lose. I do not feel it giving any effect on me or not. But.... I know the answer is... NO!

Stop talking about my self with my dissatisfied.
I have read some article about the beauty...
aha.... I found that. Being beauty is the easier than you think.

Nicholson (2011) on psychologytoday.com told that "physical appearance was not the only aspect of ourselves that was attractive. Our personalities can influence how others see us"

On his different article talking about

Swami and colleagues (2010) studied the influence of personality on perceptions of physical attractiveness. They asked male participants to rate the attractiveness of photographs of various female figures (ranging from emaciated to obese). Some participant groups received positive personality information about the women in the pictures (extraverted, agreeable, conscientious, open, and stable), while others received negative personality information, or no information at all.

Results found that all groups agreed on the body shape that was "most" attractive. However, groups given positive personality information found a significantly wider range of body sizes physically attractive, compared to the control group. Groups given negative personality information found a significantly narrower range of body sizes attractive than the control group.

He also talking about

An earlier study by Lewandowski, Aron, and Gee (2007) supports this effect. Their study used both men and women as participants, manipulated personality trait descriptions, and utilized ratings of yearbook photos. The authors found that pictures paired with positive traits were rated as more attractive, and those paired with negative traits were rated as less attractive, when compared to controls. This effect occurred with pictures of both "attractive" and "unattractive" students. This effect also happened for both men and women participants, with women a bit more sensitive to "negative" personality information. Finally, the effect also influenced judgments of desirability as a dating partner.

Really.... I do not want to influence you about not wearing an sexy cloth or forgetting about your appearance. But The best thing that you have to know that...
No matter how you are... fat, thin, tall, short or any thing else... indeed... you are beautiful. really... I mean, God always make a beautiful creature, which differ only how other people see you and how you seeing yourself.

Want to see this article by Jeremy Nicholson? and more detail about this beautiful mean by people? see...

Being Beautiful or Handsome is Easier than You Think!

Is your Personality Making You More or Less Physically Attractive?




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BURNOUT

Hi there....

I don't know now, why I'm still working on this blog while there's a huge pile of task. I feel that my mind is full of something undefined.

Today I get my mid term exam score. And.... I got burn. I got 78.00. Not so bad in another subject, but this subject have more than 50% point!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I got stress now.

What should I do?

Talking About LOVE

Hari ini, aku kembali disibukkan dengan tugas yang menumpuk. Mungkin karena aku kelelahan aku sampai harus sakit seperti ini. Semalam aku terbaringtak berdaya di atas kasurku.

malam ini aku baru saja menyelesaikan tugas refleksi diri di logbook ku. kali ini yang kami bicarakan adalah mengenai hubungan interpersonal.

Salah satu pembahasannya tentu saja tentang cinta. Aku baru sadar ternyata aku belum pernah jatuh cinta selama hidupku, yang ada hanya rasa suka.

Bodohnya aku menyukai MAR. Benar-benar diluar dugaan. Untungnya selama satu minggu ini aku tak berjumpa dengannya.

bodoh!


_RedRose

Kulit Gatal dan Mata Kedutan Itu Tanda Stres

TRIBUNNEWS.COM - Tekanan hidup dan beban pekerjaan sering menyebabkan stres. Dampaknya bisa buruk bagi sistem pencernaan seperti iritasi organ pencernaan bahkan penyakit kardiovaskular dan stroke. Sayangnya, kita sering tidak menyadari bahwa sebenarnya ada gejala dan tanda kita terkena stres.

* Rahang nyeri
Bukan hanya karena sakit gigi, stres secara emosional dapat membuat otot-otot rahang sakit. Gejala ini biasanya terjadi ketika bangun atau tidur. Secara umum, perhatikan apa yang pernah Anda alami, sehingga ketika gejala itu kembali Anda sudah tahu apa yang harus dilakukan. Fokuskan pada merelaksasikan rahan ketika Anda merasa panik.

* Kulit gatal
Stres membuat perubahan pada sel-sel kekebalan yang ditemukan di kulit dan membuatnya lebih aktif. Stres bisa mengakibatkan beberapa kondisi seperti psoriasis, rosacea, dan atau lebih buruk lagi, eksim. Jika kulit terasa gatal akhir-akhir ini, perhatikan tingkat stres dalam hidup Anda, dan segera mengambil langkah untuk meminimalkan. Anda juga bisa mengunjungi seorang dokter spesialis kulit untuk membantu memecahkan masalah ini.

* Mata kedutan
Meskipun penyebab pasti dari mata kedutan tidak diketahui, bisa jadi ini tanda bahwa Anda perlu beristirahat dan santai. Kadang-kadang kedutan akan hilang setelah tidur nyenyak di malam hari, namun juga bisa terjadi hingga tiga minggu. Kelelahan dan berlebihan konsumsi kafein bisa menjadi penyumbang utama mata kedutan. Mengurangi hal yang bisa membuat stres adalah cara utama menghentikan kedutan ini.

* Nyeri pada gusi
Stres meningkatkan kadar hormon kortisol, yang pada akhirnya menciptakan sensasi terbakar di sebluruh tubuh termasuk gusi. Hal ini juga bisa melemahkan sistem kekebalan tubuh, yang memicu pertumbuhan bakteri di mulut dan memicu iritasi serta peradangan pada gusi. Selain menggosok gigi dan berkumur dengan cairan pembersih, tingkatkan sistem kekebalan tubuh dengan makan makanan bergizi seimbang, cukup tidur dan konsumsi multivitamin.

* Mual
Stres juga bisa memicu ketidaknyamanan di perut. Tingkat stres yang tinggi menunjukkan peningkatan gejala seperti sakit perut, yang sebagian disebabkan hormon yang dilepaskan akibat dari stres atau kecemasan.

Tubuh menghasilkan reaksi pertahanan dari stres, yang bisa memicu jantung berdebar dan adrenalin meningkat. Olahraga adalah cara yang bagus untuk memerangi stres, termasuk mual. Makanan juga berperan penting. Jadi kurangi konsumsi kopi dan jauhi makanan yang memakai banyak bumbu.

Looks at : http://id.she.yahoo.com/kulit-gatal-dan-mata-kedutan-itu-tanda-stres-023844786.html

Stres Bikin Rambut Rontok?

TRIBUNnews.com – Jum, 16 Sep 2011 20.20 WIB

TRIBUNNEWS.COM, JAKARTA - Stres dan rambut rontok seringkali disebut memiliki hubungan sebab akibat. Banyak orang beranggapan, stres dapat membuat rambut rontok ataupun sebaliknya.

Namun benarkan seperti ini?

Daniel K. Hall-Flavin, M.D, psikiater dari Mayo Clinic mengatakan, stres dan rambut rontok memang punya keterkaitan satu sama lain. Daniel memaparkan, ada tiga kondisi penyebab rambut rontok yang dikaitkan dengan stres tingkat tinggi. Ketiga kondisi yang perlu Anda ketahui adalah :

1. Alopecia areata
Alopecia areata adalah suatu kondisi rambut rontok yang umumnya terjadi pada daerah yang berbatas tegas seperti kulit kepala. Banyak faktor penyebab alopesia areata, termasuk salah satunya stres berat. Orang dengan alopecia areata, sel darah putih akan menyerang folikel rambut, menghentikan pertumbuhan rambut, sehingga membuat rambut rontok.

2. Telogen effluvium
Telogen effluvium adalah bentuk alopesia yang ditandai dengan kerontokan rambut secara difus yang dapat terjadi secara akut maupun kronis. Dalam kondisi ini, stres emosional atau stres fisik turut mendorong pertumbuhan rambut masuk ke dalam fase istirahat. Dalam beberapa bulan, rambut-rambut yang terkena efeknya akan tanggal secara tiba-tiba. Misalnya, saat Anda sedang menyisir atau sedang keramas.

3. Trikotilomania
Trikotilomania adalah gambaran kondisi kejiwaan di mana orang memiliki kecenderungan menarik rambut, alis atau bagian lain dari tubuh mereka sendiri. Orang dengan kondisi seperti ini biasanya sedang mengalami masalah dengan perasaannya (tidak nyaman), seperti stres, cemas, tegang, kelelahan, kesepian, atau frustrasi.

Stres dan rambut rontok tidak harus permanen. Jika Anda mampu mengendalikan stres, besar kemungkinan rambut Anda akan tumbuh kembali. Segera konsultasikan dengan dokter jika Anda melihat rambut rontok tiba-tiba atau mengalami kerontokan yang tidak wajar ketika menyisir atau mencuci rambut. Rambut rontok tiba-tiba merupakan sinyal dari kondisi medis bahwa Anda perlu mendapatkan pengobatan.

Looks at : http://id.she.yahoo.com/stres-bikin-rambut-rontok-132037526.html

Charity Event

t's been so long since I had no time to connect to the internet and I got many task that consuming my time. I have many story to tell you, one of them is about a charity events during the early activities of a new student at my faculty.

That was 2 October 2011, if I'm not wrong.
That was very touching activities that I have ever do. I was a part of a creative team. the theme of our activities is "DREAM".

"Dare to Dream"

That's our tag line along the event going. This event held for two days. At the first day, 1 October 2011 is a day of LOVE.
We giving a candies and a message of love to all of the academic community. That was very romantic day. All of us taking a spot on our Faculty then giving candies to all of the senior, lecture and all of the employee.

I take a part off those message love. I write those message by my own then think some sentence of love to given to a senior.

"My life became more meaningful cause there is you and me. Thank you my lovely senior."

The words look very cheesy and redundant. How crazy I am....

Then it came to 2 October 2011.
Today, me and the creative team making a decoration. Then I became a foster sister.

Then I met Irma there. Irma is a street child, she is about 7-8 years old. She wearing a pink veil with a pink bag also.
At the mid-event, Irma takes by another foster sister. That because I was gone to a mosque to take a dhuha pray.

Then I take another child to be my foster. Then I meet a boy wearing a black hat and also a brown skin, he told me that his name was Pace.

That is not his real name. I really forget his real name, but one thing that I remember was it consist of two syllable. Pa-Ce. 'Pa' is come from his name, and 'Ce' is come from word "cengeng" in Indonesian means 'Sloppy'. That kind of a people who always crying.

He was a cheerful boy, he is about 14 years old. Not to different to me. When it is time to drawing their dreams, Pace drawing a mountain and a field. then he also drawing a house.

I asked him why he draw those thing, because he must be drawing his dream on that paper. Then he told me his story.
He is really likes drawing, his father teach him how to draw a thing. Then he told me that his father was a farmer, so he missing his place before now. He also told me about his mother that live on C*****m. He told me he does not want to go back to his mother even he really feel missed her. But he refuse to told me why.
He said that he is happy now, got independent living, shake for money by him self. He had already grown-up. I could see it.

At his paper he write down a message
"this my picture, though it not good, but I am really happy. Thanks."

That's a very good word.
At the end of this event, Pace together with his friend singing along. he sing about a mother. I saw him. I could see a face of a child that was missing his mother but he collided with a state.
Then I do not know why my tears fall down.

I would always remember this day. he asked me that someday I could play to the dorm where street children live and play again. I also had to instruct him to could be a smart and successful. and he promised me to be a successful person someday.






_RedRose

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