I always hear about that, some people told that when they see a beautiful woman pass by them. Me too.
Today I look at some photograph of my friend on the social networking. She upload her new photograph. She wearing a black mini dress. She looks.... sexy. I do not mean anything by saying that word, I just really think that she is beautiful by wearing those stuff and all of the sexy cloth. Does not like me...
Hey... wait. But listen, I do not mean that I want to wearing those sexy stuff. hehehehe... (^w^)v
I do not have a good posture of body. I do not know, I want to tell it to you about my weight or not. But... hyaaaa.... you do not know me actually, doesn't it?
I am about 165 cm with 65 kilos or more. hehehhe....
I am very feel dissatisfied with it. I feel like... I am really unlucky person.
The things that makes me still known by the people is... I am the diligent student with the first rank at my school.
I think... I am feeling the same way today. But look... I think a little bit small now... maybe one kilo lose. I do not feel it giving any effect on me or not. But.... I know the answer is... NO!
Stop talking about my self with my dissatisfied.
I have read some article about the beauty...
aha.... I found that. Being beauty is the easier than you think.
Nicholson (2011) on psychologytoday.com told that "physical appearance was not the only aspect of ourselves that was attractive. Our personalities can influence how others see us"
On his different article talking about
Swami and colleagues (2010) studied the influence of personality on perceptions of physical attractiveness. They asked male participants to rate the attractiveness of photographs of various female figures (ranging from emaciated to obese). Some participant groups received positive personality information about the women in the pictures (extraverted, agreeable, conscientious, open, and stable), while others received negative personality information, or no information at all.
Results found that all groups agreed on the body shape that was "most" attractive. However, groups given positive personality information found a significantly wider range of body sizes physically attractive, compared to the control group. Groups given negative personality information found a significantly narrower range of body sizes attractive than the control group.
He also talking aboutAn earlier study by Lewandowski, Aron, and Gee (2007) supports this effect. Their study used both men and women as participants, manipulated personality trait descriptions, and utilized ratings of yearbook photos. The authors found that pictures paired with positive traits were rated as more attractive, and those paired with negative traits were rated as less attractive, when compared to controls. This effect occurred with pictures of both "attractive" and "unattractive" students. This effect also happened for both men and women participants, with women a bit more sensitive to "negative" personality information. Finally, the effect also influenced judgments of desirability as a dating partner.
Really.... I do not want to influence you about not wearing an sexy cloth or forgetting about your appearance. But The best thing that you have to know that...No matter how you are... fat, thin, tall, short or any thing else... indeed... you are beautiful. really... I mean, God always make a beautiful creature, which differ only how other people see you and how you seeing yourself.
Want to see this article by Jeremy Nicholson? and more detail about this beautiful mean by people? see...
Being Beautiful or Handsome is Easier than You Think!
Is your Personality Making You More or Less Physically Attractive?
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